Life

  • People / Relationships / Team / Teamwork / Friends / Network / Family
  • Connection ( depth vs breadth, deep vs shallow ) / Something larger than yourself / Interactions
  • Gratitude / Thanks / Appreciation
  • Reinterpretion
  • Hope / Faith / Trust / Safety
  • Grit / Preserverance
  • Willpower / Discipline
  • Self Awareness / Observation / Experimentation
  • Communication
  • Boundaries (time, relationships, money)
  • Vulnerability / Acceptance
  • Forgiveness / Self Forgiveness
  • Purpose / Calling / Vocation
  • Reciprocation / Feedback / Validation
  • Kindness / Compassion / Empathy / Understanding
  • Laughter / Fun / Excitement / New / Flirt / Foreplay / Tease / Play
  • Rhythm

#Drive

  • Autonomy
  • Mastery
  • Purpose

#Others

  • Optimize for growth. rocket ships.

    • Success will come in the long term
  • You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with
  • Strengths can turn into weaknesses.

#What people want

  • Understanding, acceptance, validation

#Intelligent People

Require more:

  • Feedback / Reciprocation / Appreciation / Validation
  • Space to have them be heard.
  • Need a creative outlet
  • Input and Output

#Seasons of Life

  • Pre Commitment
  • Post Commitment

#Pre Commitmet

Stage for testing your partner's ability to commit.

  • Fun
  • Test for post commitment requirements

#Post Commitment

Generally means having children.

Requirements:

  • Accountability
  • Dependability
  • Psychological Safety
  • Trust